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Guide for new swingers

The most important rule in the Swinging Scene is that anyone can say "No" at anytime and "No" ALWAYS means NO!

If you are playing with someone and they say "no" you must stop whatever you are doing immediatly.

Can I become a swinger?

Of course you can. Everyone is welcomed in the swinging community, as whatever your shape, size, colour, tastes, fantasies or shoe size is, someone, somewhere will be looking for you.

OK, so how do I start?

Determine what you (if single) or you and your partner want to do, Be prepared to discuss your needs, and your partners, be prepared for some surprises, as you may well find that the things you have talked about as pillow talk are just the start of some very exciting fantasies. Remember that you both need to feel comfortable with what you are going to do, so define behaviour boundaries for each meeting, or party or club visit.

Go to the event, and stay within the agreed boundaries. There have been many incidents where one partner has abandoned the agreement mid way through the evening, which is going to cause the evening to end in arguments.

After the event, go home and play, talk about the evening, what you liked and disliked, how it could be more fun, and what you should avoid on future meetings.

So how do I/we find someone to "Play" with?

The Internet

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